Struggle to humble all of your being before God, your thoughts, words, actions, all your relationships and interactions today and every day. A pleasing way to him to do this well is by consecrating yourself wholeheartedly to him through the Immaculate Heart of Mary. In this way, you renounce all of your pride and ask her to clothe you with her humility, adoration, and praise of the living God. She who is higher than the angels because she humbled herself beneath them all will bestow upon you the gift of communion with God.
Then in the regal humility of the sons of God, he may not refuse you anything, yet because of being lowly before him you would not ask anything disagreeable to his inmost heart.